Deciding to drop it
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Getting ready for the release
Find a quiet place to sit or lay downAllow myself to just be for a minute
Just surrender to what is
Notice my thoughts, watch them for a while
Without judgement, fully allow my thoughts to come and go as they do
Notice my body, watch the different body sensations I have
Without judgement, fully allow the body sensations to be as they are
Welcome and allow all thoughts and emotions
It is ok for me to have these thoughts and feelings and body sensations
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The releasing steps
Give myself permission to be with a feeling or feelingsIn this moment as best I can, just drop this like a pen
Repeat the above steps until I feel complete and light and free
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Helpful tips
If it helps, open and close my fists as I drop the emotionClosing my eyes helps me notice thoughts and feelings
Give myself permission to be open to the exercise helping me
Let go of expectations I have about the exercise getting rid of my problem
Allow the release to happen when it does
Avoid labelling thoughts and emotions and body sensations
If just dropping the emotion is not working for me, I can add
Could I just drop the feeling?Would I just drop the feeling?
When?
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Remember
Be kind to myself and don’t push for resultsRemember feelings come and go, they are not attached to me
My feelings are not who I am
I give feelings the power to control me
I have the power to choose when I am ready to let go of this feeling
I am that which existed before this body mind and that which exists after this body mind is gone
Release to let go of the emotion, not to let go of the person, place or thing
Just like dropping a pen, it is just a choice to love a person, to grant them the right to be who they are
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After the release
Allow myself to rest with and enjoy the remaining thoughts and feelingsWhen I feel I have mastered this releasing method, I can do this release with my eyes open; and
I can also do this release on the move
I can also do the release in a noisy place
I can also do this release with other people
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